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I'm joining Service Space because ... I heard so much good things about Service Space from Berkeley Buddhist Monastery

A good day to me is when ... my friends give me the honor of sharing their joys and pains in life.

My hero in life is ...HH Dalai Lama

My favorite book is ...Emotional Intimacy

One thing I'm grateful for is ... Good Friends


A Life-Changing One-Way Conversation

Dec 21, 2020, 10 smiles [During a Sacred Space Pod in September, I was remembering this incident, and a couple volunteers encouraged me to share about it here, too.] I often have very early morning conference calls. I enjoyed the morning calm and the ocean breeze that blow away the Los Angeles summer heat. A few weeks ago, while I was on a 5am call, my neighbor yelled out from his window. "Can you please close your window when you have a conference call?" He sounded exasperated. Tired. I stopped. I cannot argue back. I reflected on his word, and imagine how my conversation sounds like from his side. And then it became clear to me - he is right. I never realize I am ruining the morning calm for others that is so dear to me. I almost want to yell "THANK YOU!". But that would be weird. So I just closed the window. From that moment on, before I ... Read Full Story