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Zen And The Art Of Bedtime

July 18, 2015 View Email Version
"If every child in the world would be taught meditation, we would eliminate violence from the world within one generation." The Dalai Lama

Zen And The Art Of Bedtime: How We Turned To Meditation To Stop The Children's Evening Tantrums

Zen And The Art Of Bedtime: How We Turned To Meditation To Stop The Children's Evening Tantrums
"It is bedtime. I am tucking my children into bed. There is a pleasing calm in the air, as they lie there, snuggled up quietly in anticipation. Bedtimes used to be a frantic battleground, marked by tantrums, sobbing and endless trips to the loo. Thankfully, all that changed the day I started slipping meditation into our bedtime routine. [...]

The technique is simple. As with adult meditation – which basically involves closing our eyes, bringing awareness to our body and mind, noticing our "train" of thoughts, and gently trying to "let go" by using the anchor of our breathing – I guide them into focusing on their tummies rising and falling, their breath flowing in and out. Why does focusing on our breath help? For young children (and all of us), it takes us out of our heads. Because as soon as you start paying attention to the breath, you are more in touch with your inner world, more in touch with the moment." [read more]

Reading Corner

Book recommendation
Title: A Handful of Quiet: Happiness in Four Pebbles

By: Thich Nhat Hanh

Ages: 5+

"Pebble meditation is a groundbreaking and completely unique technique to introduce children to the calming practice of meditation. Developed by Zen master, best selling author, and peace Nobel Prize nominee Thich Nhat Hanh A Handful of Quiet contains complete instructions for pebble meditation designed to involve children in a hands-on and creative way that touches on their interconnection with nature. Whether practiced alone or with the whole family, pebble meditation can help relieve stress, increase concentration, nourish gratitude, and can help children deal with difficult emotions." --Publishers

Recommended by Cubs Editors

Be the Change

Silence is the key to a balanced heart. You could start by making silence/meditation a part of your daily routine. For eg. a 5 minute meditation right when you wake up, or a minute of silence before meals, or before your child's soccer practice or during an anxious moment or before bedtime. So what routine are you modifying today?

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