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Compassion As A Basic Global EthicPosted by Nipun Mehta on Aug 31, 2014
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For the last five days, we found ourselves in rural Italy -- under the Tuscan sun. Before he passed away last year, Raimon Panikkar used to say: "The future is not in building a new tower of Babel, but in cultivating well trodden paths from house to house." Every year, he would host a "Sangama" -- a group of six to ten people, who spend five days together in a natureseque setting to hold roundtable dialogues on a particular topic. Meditating 3 times a day, having periods of silence and reflection, and doing chores around the property, all crafted a conducive environment for deepening.
This year, the Sangama was anchored by Brother David Steindl Rast, an 88 year old Benedictine monk who is most known for his Buddhist-Christian dialogue and a remarkable presence that has been cultivated through decades of rigorous meditation. (Rev. Heng Sure was translating a dialogue between his teacher Master Hua and Brother David, and at one point, Master Hua says: "I don't need any translation. I agree with everything he says.") Our theme: Basic Global Ethic: Compassion?
Ethics is how we behave with our kin, but the notion of global ethic requires us to ask if we can expand our idea of kin to everyone on the globe. Similarly, there is a question around the nature of compassion and if it is a fundamental quality that can resonate across all boundaries.

Ego is what emerges when "I" forgets the Self. This creates fear, aggression, competition, greed. If we simply observe those negativities, they wither away since it lacks a firm foundation to stand on. Then, compassion arises as our natural state.
That disconnection -- between the I and the Self, the inner and the outer -- is the basis of our suffering. While pain is an inevitable part of growth, and the human experience, this kind of suffering is optional. In response, we see at least three kinds of action. Sympathy seems to stem from noticing the pain of others, empathy is about feeling the pain of others, and compassion is about serving others as if the pain was yours.

That compassion, stemming from an intention to include all beings as your kin and a clear understanding of the relationship between the Self and I -- what Rilke calls the "double realm" -- can be a global ethic.
Science has made a lot of progress in studying compassion, but its ultimate expression can only be in first-person experience. "A child experiences pain with a tooth cavity, while a scientist observes a detached tooth and tries to recreate those conditions. As soon as you have third person, it isn't the same thing. Mirror neurons, for instance, are a great discovery but it just can't tell the full story," Brother David said.

Can we teach compassion? Or rather, can we create conditions for compassion to arise by itself? Tim Harrison at Emory has developed a Compassion Training Program that they are piloting around the country, including Emory's Medical School next semester. Similarly, Anthony Chavez (grand-son of Cesar Chavez), pondered how compassion would manifest in the realm of politics. Projects like Karma Kitchen and works & conversations magazine and Amdavad Rickshaw offer a way to cultivating gift relationship in the context of economic transactions. Katriona Munthe, a leading Jungian expert who helped uncover the remarkable Red Book, spoke about the intersection of joy and compassion -- in particular, theatre, flash mobs and art. The 21-Day Challenges at KindSpring also offer a great avenue to practice being the change.

At one point, in our conversation, Brother David candidly raised the question: "So what do you suppose is the point of all this?" We suffer, we help, we stumble. Rinse, lather, repeat. That inquiry prompted a lively discussion that ended with Katriona laughing, "That was a trick question, wasn't it? There is no point." Kate Olson, from PBS's Religion and Ethics show, quickly prompted: "So if Brother David had to rewrite Rick Warren's Purpose-Driven Life, what would he call it?" Probably, 'Living a Grateful Life'. :) Purpose is rooted in the "I" and builds on the ego, while gratitude simply smiles at whatever-is from the realm of the 'Self'.
That, of course, doesn't mean we don't do anything. Desire comes from word de-sider-ium -- which Brother David explains as "hitching your cart to a star." Based on our past conditions, we each gravitate towards our star. That defines our unique work in the world. If we become aware of that work, become instruments of that call, and serve with compassion -- mission accomplished.
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Ammi wrote ...
Beautiful flower mandala. A good mantra - Living the Grateful Life ! Thank you for sharing.
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Aryae Coopersmith wrote ...
Thank you Nipun for sharing this experience with the rest of us. I feel like I'm privileged to be in the room with these amazing souls, listening, connected.
Sympathy > empathy > compassion -- may the way continue to flow ever stronger through our communities and our lives! -
Somik Raha wrote ...
Thank you for sharing this, Nipun!
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Fran Faraz wrote ...
Thanks Nipun. This is great sharing.
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Madhu Mehta wrote ...
Nipun - remarkable thoughts and expression - clarity to weave difficult topics - Self, I, & Ego & Compassion-
"Ego is what emerges when "I" forgets the Self. This creates fear, aggression, competition, greed. If we simply observe those negativities, they wither away since it lacks a firm foundation to stand on. Then, compassion arises as our natural state".
& then to lead to purpose
Probably, 'Living a Grateful Life'. :) Purpose is rooted in the "I" and builds on the ego, while gratitude simply smiles at whatever-is from the realm of the 'Self'.
Very insightful - and justifies retreats !!
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Milan Janzic wrote ...
Thank you for sharing! As a teacher I beleive that we need to be more aware of compassion! I'll share this with my colleagues!!
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Maria Boccasile wrote ...
Dear Nipun Metha,
Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful text,
it is precious food for the soul...an my soul is gratefull to you.
I wish you a wonderfull life,
Maria -
Jessi wrote ...
I love the quote about well-being trodden paths. Do you know the primary source from which it is found?
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Jessi wrote ...
I love the quote about well-being trodden paths. Do you know the primary source from which it is found?
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Jessi wrote ...
I love the quote about well-being trodden paths. Do you know the primary source from which it is found?
Radha Ivaturi wrote ...