Quote of the Week
"The mind that opens up to a new idea never returns to its original size." --Albert Einstein
Fixed V. Growth: The Two Basic Mindsets That Shape Our Lives
"One of the most basic beliefs we carry about ourselves, Dweck found in her research, has to do with how we view and inhabit what we consider to be our personality. A “fixed mindset” assumes that our character, intelligence, and creative ability are static givens which we can’t change in any meaningful way, and success is the affirmation of that inherent intelligence, an assessment of how those givens measure up against an equally fixed standard; striving for success and avoiding failure at all costs become a way of maintaining the sense of being smart or skilled. A “growth mindset,” on the other hand, thrives on challenge and sees failure not as evidence of unintelligence but as a heartening springboard for growth and for stretching our existing abilities. Out of these two mindsets, which we manifest from a very early age, springs a great deal of our behavior, our relationship with success and failure in both professional and personal contexts, and ultimately our capacity for happiness." Read on
Reading Corner
Title: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
By: Carol S. Dweck, PhD
Stage: Toddler onwards to young adults
Why: "Dweck explains why it’s not just our abilities and talent that bring us success—but whether we approach them with a fixed or growth mindset. She makes clear why praising intelligence and ability doesn’t foster self-esteem and lead to accomplishment, but may actually jeopardize success. With the right mindset, we can motivate our kids and help them to raise their grades, as well as reach our own goals—personal and professional. Dweck reveals what all great parents, teachers, CEOs, and athletes already know: how a simple idea about the brain can create a love of learning and a resilience that is the basis of great accomplishment in every area." --Publisher
Recommended by Cubs Editors
Be The Change
Help your child develop a passion for learning by praising their effort rather than their success. For some more wonderful ways to encourage a growth mindset in yourself and your child and an animation of Dweck discussing her theories, visit this link.
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